When compared to modern society, our hunter and gatherer ancestors had very specific male and female roles, with very few divorce lawyers. To win your Ex back in today’s society may just require a very long trip down memory lane.

With modern society, a lot of unfairness has been ironed out (forgive the pun) of the workplace, ensuring equal reward for equal effort, regardless of your sex. Promotions are being offered to whoever deserves it the most. Women have worked very hard toward removing sexist work practices. However, we need to be vigilant that this movement does not spill into every aspect of life. To maintain happiness in a relationship requires remembering that a mans and woman’s needs can vary greatly.

A woman’s core needs are very different to a man’s.

She needs her man to be secure within himself. One who can “step up” and be her man in the relationship.

He must be able to provide security for his lady, whether that be financial security, or emotional security, or both.

A mans confidence is very attractive to his lady. She wants her man to “lead” her in public places.

She needs to have interests and passions that are similar to his. The connection must be deeper than just lust. She wants to know that she will continue to be stimulated into the future.

A woman needs her man to be a MAN. Many women don’t realize this, and they feel they need to bring out the sensitive side of their man, to make him more like a woman.

Men are quite different in their requirements. The number one need for a man is to be a MAN. If a man senses that someone is trying to take this away from him, his survival instincts will kick in and he will leave.

A man will look for the following qualities in his woman.

Loyalty. His woman must be dependable and be consistent in her actions.

She must support him in his choices. He wants her to confirm his actions, and be on his side.

Consistency is crucial. His lady should not say something, but then go and do something different.

Trust. If he is questioned about everything that happens, he will feel he isn’t trusted.

So, once upon a time it didn’t even occur to society what was needed for their happiness. Men needed to be men if they were to protect their family from wild animals. And the women felt like they had their “man”. It never occurred to them that they wanted their man to be more feminine. Today we don’t face the same dangers, and our lifestyle allows men and women to share many roles. However, we don’t realize that modern life is also robbing us of our core needs in a relationship, resulting in a growing number of relationship failures. Society should not have to change the progress that has been made in the workplace, but if you can be taught what your core needs are, you can begin to integrate them into your personal life, and to win your Ex back can be a reality.

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